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Daily user beginning a detox soon and looking for strategies, propaganda, anything that I can turn to for staying clean [more inside]Hello- started relatively late (22 yrs old) but long time (~15 yrs with a few breaks) daily enjoyer of pot and THC products. Over the last 5 years or so, my use has tapered to only at the end of the day. It helps me relax and get to sleep, helps with certain aspects of creative work, and it is definitely a coping mechanism for some persistent job issues. It is my only vice. I do not (and can't for medical reasons) drink alcohol, and I do have propensity for emotional eating, but this hasn't been a problem in the last year or so. I'm beginning a detox on August 1st, and am wondering if anyone who had a similar experience would share any type of ideas, thoughts, books, culture, films, etc that helped them to maintain right perspective. Especially in the face of that most insidious thing about marijuana: that super relaxed feeling that everything is "OK" and how getting high, or the prospect thereof, tends to suppress certain strains of critical thought and foresight. I appreciate any thoughts/suggestions, no matter how far out they may seem. Thanks!

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The last VCR will be manufactured this month. If you'd like to relive the design of simpler days, there's VAULT OF VHS. If you'd like to keep your VCR in good shape, consult Samuel M. Goldwasser's Notes on the Troubleshooting and Repair of Video Cassette Recorders, Version 3.22b (7-Oct-10). If you're determined to rid legacy formats from your life, consult Anarchivism's How to Rip VHS. Previously in dead media: Betamax, VCR Games, Blockbuster, Marion Stokes, VHS on its last legs?, Jack Valenti.

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Yesterday I visited the Isaac Royall House in Medford, MA, a Georgian home built in 1692 and extensively remodeled in the 1730s. We noticed that several of the closet doors had casings that were clearly slanted at the top (unfortunately I can't find those particular doors in pictures). It looked intentional, not like a result of the house sagging. What would be the purpose of this type of design?

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Methyl cellulose solution has the handy property of being liquid up to about 50deg C, and becomes solid(ish) above that temperature. I'm looking for a substance that does the same, but with a transition temperature somewhere around 0-20deg C.Bonus points for being water-based and fairly non-toxic. I have access to decent lab chemical suppliers.

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My boyfriend found a stray kitten in the parking garage of his building this weekend and we caught it and delivered it to the local shelter. But I can't stop thinking about this kitty. Should I go back and get this cat? Is this what "time to get a cat" feels like?I've never had a cat before and don't really know much about cat care beyond "feed them and clean their litter box and give them something to scratch", but I'd entertained the idea of adopting a cat about a year ago before deciding against it. I am a little nervous at the idea of being a pet parent, especially a kitten. I guess I'm just trying to figure out if this is just strong kitty empathy that has come about as a result of bringing this scared kitty somewhere safe to be looked after, or if this is the first step towards cat ownership. (Well, "own" in the sense of "inviting a cat to live in your house.") How did you know your cat was "the one"? How did you find your pet kitties? Do you have any special kitty tips for a nervous nelly, possible new cat steward? And also, should I go snatch this kitty back from the Animal Rescue League before they put a photo on the internet? Because this cat is CUTE and will get scooped up in a hot minute.

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For the last 5 days I've had really horrid abdominal and back pain on my left side; tests show no signs of infection. What do I need to talk to my doctor about to get to the bottom of this?Wednesday night I suddenly had a really strong pain in my stomach and back, on my left side, roughly in line with my navel. I had diarrhoea and then was up through the night vomiting, with the pain staying almost constant. I phoned the out of hours GP, who suggested paracetamol or ibuprofen. I have now been treating with ibuprofen, but before the 4 hr dosage window is up, I'm feeling enough pain that I often take another dose early, and I'm definitely not sticking to their '6 tablets in a 24 hr period' rule. The vomiting stopped by Wednesday morning, but the pain has not gone away, and sometimes I feel nausea alongside the pain. On Saturday I went to urgent care because the pain hadn't abated (and it's also the only time I could be sure to have my husband around to look after our two young children), but after spending most of the day there, they sent me home without any real answers. My urine and blood were tested and there were no signs of anything obvious (eg. a kidney infection or ectopic pregnancy). The doctor I saw gave a possible diagnosis of a viral infection, I guess because of the diarrhoea and vomiting, but this doesn't feel like any virus I've ever had, the pain has far outlasted the other stuff, and nobody else in the family has caught it (which is what normally happens in our household with anything viral). The pain is very localised most of the time, but there have been moments when it was so bad that it felt as if it was radiating to my side and down into my gut. It feels too high to be gynecological, and certainly doesn't feel like menstrual pain (I had a baby 3 months ago and my period hasn't returned yet anyway). If I weren't passing wind, I'd characterise the pain as really similar to trapped wind. I've now made an appointment with my GP in a couple of days - what do I need to ask about so I can stop feeling like this? I don't have the childcare resources or energy to keep chasing this up - what should I be hoping to walk out of his office with? A referral to somebody? An appointment for a scan?

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We'll be visiting cousins and their kids (toddlers thru tweens & a teen) in Denmark and Sweden in August. We're coming from upstate NY. We've got books & comics plus some gross US candy for the kids, but are stumped on anything to bring to the adults. We're packing very light, so small is good. What's novel, or amusing, or tasty that comes from the US and is uncommon in Scandinavia? Extra or alternate kid gift suggestions are also still welcomed!

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Evidence of torture of children in custody in Australia. As seen on Australian television this evening. Australia has a history of both criminally abusing people in detention , and vilifying people who try to blow the whistle. The Forgotten Children: National Inquiry into Children in Immigration Detention (2014) Gillian Triggs, the Human Rights Commissioner who wrote about the treatment of children in immigration detention was attacked by a conservative government that was re-elected in the last month.

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2010 Honda Civic Hybrid, low miles. I'm pretty sure the IMA (hybrid battery system) is going to be an ongoing problem. Should I stick with it or trade it in? Specifically interested in answers from people who are familiar with the Honda hybrids with nickel-metal hydride batteries.My dad died in April and I inherited his car, a 2010 Honda Civic Hybrid with 25,000 miles. Before he died, the car sat for a few months (maybe 4-6?) and we had to replace the (normal starter) battery because it was dead. A couple weeks after I started driving the car, the IMA and check engine lights came on and I took it in, after doing some research online and discovering that the Civic Hybrids have a LOT of problems with the hybrid battery systems. They replaced the fan which cools the hybrid battery pack and it was fine for about two months. Last Sunday, I started it and the battery (normal starter battery), IMA, and check engine lights ALL came on. I hooked up the OBD to it and it was throwing a code that the battery voltage was irregular. At this point ONLY the check engine light was on, the IMA and battery lights were not. The car behaved normally, and the check engine light went off the next morning, before I could call to get a service appointment. It remained off all week, and the car seened fine. Yesterday, same thing happened: battery, IMA, and check engine lights came on. I turned the car off, waited a minute, restarted, and only the check engine light remained on. It stayed on all day. This morning, all 3 lights were on again, I turned the car off, back on, only the check engine light was on. After driving around a bit this morning, the check engine light went off. So I don't know whether to take it in or not. (Can they pull up a history of codes that the OBD throws or do I need to wait until it's on to take it in?) My father purchased an extended warranty when he bought the car new in 2010, which I didn't know since I can't find any paperwork about that, I found out about it when they replaced the fan -- it only cost me a $100 deductible. Since I don't know anything about what it covers or when it expires I don't know how that should factor into my decision on whether or not to keep the car. So, I have this car, which is completely paid for, and gets great mileage (40-45mpg) and it has really low miles so allegedly still has a lot of life, BUT I have a feeling that it's always going to be fussy and end up with lots of repair visits over its lifetime. I don't know if the warranty covers replacing the hybrid battery pack (which is what I suspect is failing) and I'm afraid if I ask they'll notice that I own it now, and not my dad, and that the warranty may not be transferable (again, no paperwork, and I can't ask my dad, so the extended warranty is a big question mark). My instinct is to trade it in for a simple non-fussy car like a new Ford Fiesta or a Kia Soul to just avoid having to deal with an unreliable car and get a good warranty but even a low-end car like that would probably cost me $3000-4000 because it looks like the trade-in value of the Civic is $9000 -- so maybe I should just stick with the Civic and not worry about it? After all, it would take a lot of $100 deductibles to get to $4K, and that's before even considering the cost of gas would go up if I traded it in for a regular gas engine vehicle. But if the battery pack ISN'T covered, that's $2000-4000 to replace at which point I would be mad at myself for not trading it in. What would you do? Note: I am aware that regular Honda Civics with gas engines are extremely reliable. The Hybrids, however, seem to be much less so -- so please, no "it's a Honda, that means it'll last forever!" generic advice.

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How hard is it, really, to do your own newborn photography for baby announcements?I'm 32 weeks pregnant, and have been contacting a number of photographers for a newborn portrait session, haven't heard back from anyone yet. At (8) weeks away from my due date and still nothing booked, I am seriously wondering whether I've already missed my window for finding a professional photographer whose portfolios of baby portraits I like, and offers a relatively affordable package for my needs - a handful of digital photos to put in a baby announcement. I would be perfectly happy having the baby announcement done by them too if possible. I've been using google to find photographers who do babies, and there are a ton in my city, but most are pretty darn expensive, outright saying they expect new parents to spend a minimum of $1000-$1500 on the sitting fees and selection of photographs... I don't want to spend that, I don't need a wedding album's worth of professionally shot newborn photos, I just want some professional shots in a certain style for a baby announcement card -- husband in his firefighter gear with baby in costume as well. But I'm not going to the opposite end of the spectrum and do Sears or Walmart, they don't do a good enough job - I don't like the way they look. I'd rather do it myself if it comes to that. I am a decent photographer, with a good dSLR camera and tripod, would likely be happy with my own work - just don't know if I'd have the energy to do this and do the post-work touchups done in timely fashion. My mother is better than I am, she teaches high school art, photography and digital art (photoshop). I just don't know whether I can count on her to come take photos and do the finishing work and announcement cards for me in a decent timeframe - she can be a terrible procrastinator. But maybe if I plan for it, I can do it if need be. I'm just wondering, if it comes down to it, how hard is it to do newborn photography? Did you do your own? What tips/tricks can you offer? (On preview, did find this post but it's very old.) Or am I crazy for thinking it might be at all possible to pull this portrait session off myself while postpartum?

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Jack Monroe on being the face of austerity cooking, mental health, & coming out as transgender. Jack Monroe on the Blue, previously.

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There are dozens of UK shave clubs out there, with nobody seeming to have clambered to the top. Anybody have any recommendations?For reference: I normally use the latest Gillette safety razor at the time of purchase (currently on the Proglide Flexball). I shave quickly and hurriedly in the morning, so a 'proper' razor is out unless I want a death of a thousand cuts. I'm also fairly hirsute, so to be clean-shaven I need to shave every day. (In practice I tend to shave about 4-6 times a week as I'm running late). Not that fussed about anything other than razors.

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2012 infinity. Got lug nuts off, but tire won't budge. How do I get the tire off?

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I have a date tonight in NYC. I want to look dapper as hell. Please help a non-New-Yorker figure out how to make this happen a) today and b) ideally on the cheap.This is more or less the look I'm going for. Assume I'm starting from scratch. Where should I shop? I'm roughly the same body type as the person in the photo, though perhaps a bit more hourglassy.

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I have seen text written for differently-abled kids with a very low level of reading ability, where each word had a symbol over it. For example, "good" might have a thumbs-up or a smiley face over it; "see" might have an eye with an arrow, or something. I've searched but google is failing me. Does anyone know of any online facility to generate text like this?Reason being, I want to write a letter to a friend - I know that his carer will read it to him, but I'd love there to be bits of it that he can read or understand himself.

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My dad died. I have so much to do in the aftermath of his passing... but I just don't want to do anything. I've always been a procrastinator, but never to this degree. Please help me come up with a game plan.My dad died last week after a 7 month battle with cancer. I moved back home to be with him and was there with him through 7 months of chemo, radiation, his final illness and his passing. I'm actually ok - crying a few times a day, but overall feeling sort of blah - not happy, not sad, randomly forgetful and making lots of stupid mistakes. Dad's last few weeks were immensely hard and physically and emotionally exhausting for us as well as for him. Now that it's over, it's hard to believe I don't have to worry anymore or be constantly prepared for a crisis. I feel pretty empty, grateful dad isn't suffering anymore but also depressed that he isn't here for a hug or a joke or an in-depth discussion about Game of Thrones. I also feel intensely hungry and lazy. I am finding the amount of stuff I have to do now that my dad has passed to be overwhelming. I need a game plan - how to get stuff done when I am clearly not functioning properly. Has anyone else been in a similar situation and how did you manage to snap out of it and start being productive again? Apart from the lesser admin, my main task is deciding what to do with dad's place and his stuff, and the thought of losing his home feels almost like losing him a second time. Financially, I can't really stay in it. I have to either sell it or rent it out. I have to decide what I'll do with all his things. Getting rid of his lovingly collected library feels like another betrayal, but I just don't know where I am going to keep his hundreds of books. I also have to deal with inevitable family fallout as my dad's will has some instructions in it which are pissing certain members of my family off. I have come under a lot of pressure to revert those decisions or otherwise go against my dad's wishes. I will NOT, but I am extremely non-confrontational, AND I feel I am not firing on all cylinders since my dad left us, so it's very hard to deal with pushy relatives putting me under pressure. They seem to expect me to be fully functional and keep asking me about my plans and if I've done this yet or that yet - they don't seem to understand that while they've lost a distant relative that they saw once a year, I've lost my DAD. My dad would be the first person to tell me to pull my finger out and get cracking. I know I need to DO stuff - deal with relatives, deal with the house - but I just find it so difficult. I don't want to do anything except sit in his armchair and noodle around on the internet.

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>lookDarkness moves differently underground.>exit is a dark, uneasy story by Jessica Hayworth, told in text adventure format and illustration. (* Contains a reference to suicide by jumping in front of a train.)

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A few months ago I took a new job in a new field for me. Because I can't cope with my boss and her management style, I have decided to give notice tomorrow. I cannot stay, but the thought of actually telling her tomorrow that I am resigning, and then having to ride out the next two weeks in the office, has me breaking out in a cold sweat even now. How do I do this?Two additional complications: 1) my boss states that I have been doing a great job and seems to be thrilled with my performance, and 2) this coming Friday we are launching a big project that I have been working on since I came aboard. These factors, plus the other issues I have with her management, are making me so wary of tomorrow that I have been feeling sick all day. As you might have gathered, I am a conflict averse and anxious person. In previous jobs, these personality traits have not been a problem - I have found it easy to get along with both peers and superiors, and I have never had any problems in any workplace. With my current job, however, my anxiety is through the roof. I find myself coughing nearly to the point of throwing up. I am crying in the mornings, going off to quietly cry in the bathrooms, and, most embarrassingly, could not prevent myself from crying in front of my co-workers last week. I have been meditating and exercising, and I have seen my doctor to up my anti-depressants, but these have not not improved anything. I work in a small office, with 2 co-workers and my boss, who is in and out. We had another person working remotely, her last day was this past Friday. My co-workers are very sympathetic - they were shielded from much direct interaction with the boss by our former co-worker, but also have some similar experiences and are stressed out, but not to the degree that I am. My jobs is to supervise several small businesses that my boss owns. Each is failing and struggling in its own way, including one she launched a few weeks ago, and one we will launch this coming Friday. She wants each business to be my top priority, and she wants them all to be either opened or revamped simultaneously. However, she does not communicate what she has planned or what she wants, but is then frustrated when no business is moving forward in the direction she desires. One of the ways in which her frustration manifests itself is to then throw up an arbitrary deadline that we then scramble to meet in a half-assed fashion. This leads to further frustration on her part and more arbitrary deadlines. It also leads to 12+ hour days and working on weekends. All of this is also very stressful for her, I don't doubt, but the stress manifests itself in her shouting or barking at me, telling me that I should "know everything," and not letting me complete a sentence when I am trying to update her on progress in any area. Instead, she interrupts me and starts to shout about lack of communication or how incompetent people are. Most of this is not directed at me personally, but at the individual business managers, but I am now at the point were I dread giving her updates or status reports. When I speak with a business manager about a situation and work with them to have achieve a resolution, I am wary about reporting on the situation, because more likely then not she will interrupt me halfway through, call the manager herself and start shouting at them for minutes at a time. Then, her bile seemingly spent, she will end the phone call on an upbeat note, while I am wishing myself to the bottom of the ocean. Not surprisingly, there is a lot of turnover at the businesses she owns. Yesterday I had a 13-hour day supporting a pre-launch event ahead of opening day for one of new businesses. She was very pleased with how it went, and kept telling me how I was "a rock" through this whole process and how grateful she was for the work that I have been doing. But these feelings of gratitude did not stop her from snapping at me and talking to me like a dog when issues that I have been asking about for weeks arose again right before the event. At that point, she finally gave me the information I needed so I could address and resolve the problem. Then afterwards she was grateful and effusive in her thanks, but I don't need thanks, I just need a boss who can act professionally and provide leadership at all times, not just when she is in a good mood. I have "coaching" meetings with my boss' spouse, where I am told I need to "manage up" and praise my boss when she does not fly off the handle. That is not a skill that I have, and one I don't think I can manage to learn in this environment, when I feel like I am working with an angry chaos bomb. I really feel like this job would be a great opportunity for a better, stronger person who could distance themselves from this chaos emotionally and not take it so personally. I have been trying so hard to make myself into that better person. But all I do is wake up in the middle of the night with endless to-do lists in my head and cry a lot. I have lost 10+ pounds since I began here because I am too busy and too nervous to eat. I feel disgusted with myself that I am squandering this chance, but I cannot continue like this. Since I can go back to my previous work without much problem, that is what I plan to do. But all of the above makes me dread announcing that I am leaving. When my former co-worker, whose last day was this past Friday, announced she was leaving, the reaction of my boss and her spouse was not good, and there were a lot of uncomfortable meetings and lunches about this person choosing to leave and what a terrible betrayal this is. This despite the fact that my co-worker gave several weeks notice. How do I gird my loins to weather this kind of behavior? Especially with this new business launching soon, my boss will take this very personally and she will view it as coming from out of the blue. I just want to blame my departure on this position not being a good fit for me, but I fear she will want to drill down on my specific reasons for leaving, and I don't want to get into either her behavior or my extreme reactions to it. How do I exit as gracefully as possible with what remains for my nerves intact?

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My bedroom is roughly 12' x 10', pictured here. There are only 2 50W bullet lights, kind of like these and pictured as circles on the diagram, and there is no electrical box in the ceiling and no way to install anything else (rental, thick concrete walls and ceilings, asbestos). It is dim AF. Please help.I have a Magnarp floor lamp next to my bed which is nice for ambiance. The vast majority of time, dim mood lighting is fine. But occasionally I'd like actual light to clean or read or do projects, and these 50W bullets aren't cutting it. All the wall sconces I've seen are pretty ugly. Cords are right out, so I want something that will fit into the current electrical boxes. Suggestions? My bedroom is minimalist and Asian, so I don't want to replace the Magnarp with some industrial 3-light jobbie. The current bullet sconces are, at least, unobtrusive. Lighting designers of MeFi, I thank you!

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I'm interested in becoming an Amazon merchant that uses order fulfillment processing by Amazon, but I have some questions about how to make it profitable.I have about $10k to invest and was thinking about becoming an Amazon merchant. I want to use the fulfillment by Amazon service as I have no warehouse space, but I'm having trouble making the numbers work so that it's profitable. By the time I add up all of the fees for the products that I've pretend sourced from potential wholesalers so far, I always seem to arrive at a sales price that is significantly higher than what competitors are offering the product for on Amazon. So what are the potential competitors doing differently to be able to offer a lower price for the product? Is it just economies of scale and sourcing directly from the manufacturer instead of the wholesaler? And would it still be possible for a small fish like me to compete successfully in the marketplace if I have just a few products listed for sale? Are there any good online resources available about how this is done in 2016? Thanks in advance for your insights.

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Is there any way to get an RSS feed for the German language 'Topthemen' ("Top Topics") that the wire-service AFP publishes on their website?I've found that these short articles with simple vocabulary and grammar are pretty good for my German, so I'd like to add them as an RSS feed to my reader to keep me in the daily habit of reading a little German. I've seen that AFP shut down their own RSS feed close to ten years ago, so I'm not expecting much, but it would be great if anyone knows any German newspaper that offers a straight feed of the AFP. Ideally it would preserve the original headlines and text as it comes from the wire service, and ideally it would only show the top ten stories or so per day (i.e. the 'Topthemen'), but beggars can't be choosers. I see, for example, that Yahoo publishes all the German-language AFP articles (e.g. this one from today), but I don't see a way to get any RSS feed, let alone an RSS feed of just the AFP. Any help appreciated!

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This is doing quite well on the SE side of my house in Northern Virginia. Some are over 6ft/2m tall. What is it?

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At the top of the world a climate disaster is unfolding that will impact the lives of more than 1 billion people.

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I'm anti Facebook for all of the normal reasons: ethics, privacy, security, waste of time, as well as some special snowflake reasons below. But I like social media (hence, my MetaFilter membership). I'm feeling the FB pressure and have had a couple of specific "Damn, I wish I were on FB events" happen recently. But Facebook has been, and remains a really bad idea, right?Snowflakes: Ten years ago, most of my close friends would have agreed with me: corporate-controlled social media with no privacy protections is bad and should be avoided for ethical, privacy, security and financial reasons. I am not anti social media: my close friends and I have run mailman mailing list since 2000. It was really great in 2000 but since 2010 or so... it's been dying. And now, ~16 years later, they are all on the FB. In terms of peer pressure: a few years ago my friends made a fake FB account for me with a fake name but using an email address I control. Hahaha! It's been unused since though I still get the bounced email messages. The number of phone conversations I've had that start "Oh, right, you aren't on FB so you probably don't know ____" has reached amusing levels. I feel like one of Teh Olds: to me, FB is really creepy: friends of friends often know more about my relatives than I do. One of my inlaws is one of those "live blog my life" Facebook people so any time he comes to visit, I imagine the entire thing is documented (and I've had friends randomly confirm this, like "nice new couch!" or similar). Snowden help me! From what I've written so far, it's clear: not being on FB is the right choice for me, clearly. But recently, some events have happened that make me wonder: * my niece was in an accident and I only heard about it because her mom posted on FB while I happened to be chatting on the phone with my buddy who is also on FB. Yes, I probably would have heard about it eventually, but it seems like for many people, FB = first responder 911 now. * I completely missed my high school reunion because the school can't find me (in spite of me being the first hit if you google FirstName LastName) and I talked on the telephone with a classmate and felt pretty sad about missing it and just realizing that she has connections with some high school friends from that time that I don't. Additional snowflakes: * Our family had a prior stalking experience (both cyber and IRL) after which we decided that public social media account for us were not a good idea. Last problem was 5 years ago. Maybe it's OK now? * I'm a teacher, and really don't feel it's appropriate to have social media contacts with students. Can I not do that or am I going to have to decline invites from 100+ students a semester? * Next time I re-enter the USA, and they demand my Facebook papers I mean passwords, and I say "I don't have a facebooky" - will I get jailed and beaten, or just jailed, or just beaten? * Suppose I created an account. After doing that, is there any way out? I'm really interested in the MetaFilter member's view of Facebook - has it enhanced or hurt your life? Would you do it again? If you didn't have an account now, would you start one now? If you maintain multiple social spheres (work, school, tech-savvy friends, luddite relatives...) how do you manage it?

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I live on the east coast and it's been very hot. I am worried about my cat in this heat - being covered in fur must suck right now. How can I help him be more comfortable?He has water bowls in two spots in the apartment that I keep refreshing and I've been putting ice cubes in from time to time which he seems to like. I brushed him this morning to get extra hair off of him. He's about five years old and he's in good health but the heat has made him (understandably) pretty quiet and uninclined to run around and play the way he would normally. He spends most of his day in my bedroom, who is where the AC unit is located and is thus the coolest room in my apartment. Is there anything I can do to make him more comfortable? I'd give him a bath if it didn't mean getting my limbs sliced up and bitten... I just worry. He's my little buddy and he looks so miserable in this heat. Any suggestions would be very welcome. Thanks!

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