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I'm trying to find 2 90s YA fantasy novels that are entangled in my memory.I believe I'm thinking of two different novels, but I may be wrong! Novel A: Young women disguises herself as a man and is trained as a squire in a conventional fantasy setting. Coming of age, romance. Like a European Fantasy Mulan. I specifically remember the main character having to deal with getting her period and binding her chest while living in a dorm setting with other squires. Novel B: Young man finds a dragon egg and raises it, set in the desert planet, lots of specific detail about raising the dragon and keeping it hidden from authorities. Maybe Dragonriders of Pern spin-off? I would have read these in the early to mid-90s, likely a major publisher because I got them from the library.

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Florida this week joined the states directing residents to stay home to help reduce spread of the coronavirus but carving out exemptions for religious services Florida - Ron DeSantis - DeSantis' updated order removes language that provided an exception for local ordinances that went beyond the state order. ... That specifically pertains to a religious exemption that allows churches to continue holding services. Michigan - Whitmer - "Consistent with prior guidance, a place of religious worship, when used for religious worship, is not subject to penalty under section 14," reads the new order. New Mexico - Lujan Grisham - "Mass gathering" does not include "individuals" congregated in a church, synagogue, mosque, or other place of worship. Delaware - Carney - "We're taking reasonable precautions, but we can't take every precaution," explained Father Lentini. "We're not going to celebrate mass in a hazmat suit. Texas - Abbott - Texas Gov. Greg Abbott issued a statewide stay-at-home order, though he declined to refer to it as such, that also designated religious services as essential. Some religious groups in Texas — it's unclear just how many — are still welcoming parishioners. ... You get the idea. Other [than Florida] particularly vulnerable states with special exemptions for religious activities include Louisiana, Tennessee, West Virginia, New Hampshire, Delaware, Michigan and Mississippi. In Oklahoma, Missouri and Arkansas, there are no statewide orders closing nonessential businesses. "In almost all of the states that lead the nation in numbers of cases, and which have issued blanket stay-at-home orders, there are specific exemptions for religious gatherings or acts of worship."

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American Cinematheque goes online and debuts Oscar winner Agnès Varda's ultra rare short 'The Little Story of Gwen from French Brittany' (2008) (yt).

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I own a unit in a duplex outside Boston. The relationship with the other owner is extremely antagonistic. I feel under siege and cannot enjoy or relax in my home or yard. Is there an avenue for us to rectify the situation without us having to pay a lawyer and sue?Apologies for the length! I'm just so worn out and didn't know what was relevant or helpful to get to an answer. Background: Seven years ago we bought the larger unit in an almost 100-year-old two unit building. The other owner (let's call them Mr. L) bought the building in the early nineties and converted it to a condo. According to the condo documents Mr. L drew up and registered the split for the costs are supposed to be 55/45, they are supposed to get our unit's approval before accepting tenants and no pets are allowed without our okay. They are also supposed to do their share of maintenance like snow and leaf removal. The Mr. L lives in Florida and rents out the other two-bedroom unit, and I have only seen him on site twice. I am a mixed race woman and Mr. L is in his 80's, uses racist language and will only speak to my partner (a white male). Maintenance situation: There is no HOA or regular maintenance account or agreement. My partner and I do all the onsite maintenance like taking out the trash bins, maintaining the garden, shoveling etc. The previous owner said Mr. L would pay for small maintenance issues on a per case basis. A few years ago Mr. L agreed to some work on the masonry steps and insulation work to rectify moisture damage in the attic. We handled the contractors and got his approval on everything before the work started. When it came time for the bills to be paid he decided we should pay a larger portion 30/70 because according to him we've finished off the attic (we haven't) and therefore have more square footage. We went to a lawyer who said we could sue Mr. L for fraud since they originated the deed but weren't abiding by them. We followed their advice for a less drastic measure. We got a structural engineer to assess the building who found the building needed major work on the siding, the front porch and masonry. Our lawyer also sent them a letter informing them of state law regarding the HOA account and the stipulations re tenants in the unit. The letter was ignored. But per the lawyer's advice we opened an HOA account and made an appropriate deposit, and sent the other owner an assessment for the past due bills and an HOA deposit. After getting our condo insurer and our town to back up the structural engineer's findings Mr. L agreed to do the siding and porch. We had him co-sign on all those contracts and he (eventually, with much fanfare) mostly paid his portion of those bills. He verbally agreed to pay us the assement and join our HOA account. We agreed that once he paid us he could have access. Tenant issues: The downstairs unit is a two bedroom. We had a great relationship with the long-term tenant that was in the unit when we moved in. But, a few years ago that tenant moved out. We reminded Mr. L about the stipulations in the condo documents that state we are approve any leases and there are no pets without our approval. But Mr. L rented to a noisy drama-prone twosome who had a dog. Those tenants only stayed a year. When we saw the newest rental ad said pets were okay we again reminded Mr. L about the stipulations, but he ignored us. Without notification he moved in a family of four with a dog. We called him and he declared, "I can do whatever the hell I want." and hung up. We did our best to get along with the tenants downstairs, but their frustration with their landlord spilled over into our relationship with us, and there were definitely some issues with communication because English is their second language. The father went into our section of the basement and borrowed our tools. We told him not to, and when he did again we installed a camera. We saw him do it one more time. Several times the father approached us about issues and we directed him to Mr. L, which seemed to piss him off. He was particularly frustrated that the siding and porch rebuild took too long and disturbed him as he worked from home. The tipping point was when they got their adolescent son a car though Mr. L's unit has historically only had one car. We sent Mr. L several notes about the situation, but he said we needed to work it out with his tenants. The parking area has a tapered end towards the exit, so while we don't use our second spot for our unit it serves as a buffer for us to get out. We told them they only were supposed to have one spot (and no dog) but we never stopped them from parking the second car. The son was inconsistent how he parked and that caused tension. We eventually placed some trash bins in between the spaces so that we could protect our car from being hit by the second car. There was an altercation with the son when we did so, and then the father joined in, and we eventually called the police. The next few months were terrible. The father monitored our movements around the house and would come into the basement whenever we went down to do laundry. He and the landlord sent us emails accusing us of harassment. Mr. L forwarded us an email he sent to the tenant that told them we do not have any rights under the condo documents and that,"tell your friend that's perfectly OK if he wants to bring his cat to my apartment there will be approval for a cat or a dog in the lease the same lease That you signed". Those tenants moved out over the course of a few nights. A week or so later, new tenants moved in (again literally under the cover of night) with the help of the exiting tenants! English is also their second language. They seem nice enough, but the situation is fundamentally unchanged and they are friends with the former tenants. Mr. L did not get our approval or show us the lease, and they have a pet. We counted ourselves lucky that they only have one car. I avoid interacting with them because it feels like a tinderbox, and we have told them to speak directly to Mr. L about any issues. A few months ago we received a letter from his lawyer warning us to not harass his tenants and saying he wanted access to our HOA account. Why would we give him access to thousand of our dollars when he owes us money? He also claimed we have no rights because I had not registered as a trustee. We contacted the law firm who did our closing documents. They laughed and said the majority of people don't file that document, and that my property rights were not dependent on it. But we filed that document just remove that argument from Mr. L's repertoire We remodeled our bathroom in the past few months. One day I was bringing my kid in home early from school cause they had vomited, but the tenant stopped me at my door. He tried to tell me about a problem with his bathroom and I directed him to speak to his Mr. L. Turns out a some of their bathroom ceiling (a 3"x4" according to the pictures) was about to fall down. I did not follow up with the tenant and the next day the piece fell down and the crew immediately went and patched it. Mr. L sent us an angry email saying we needed to redo the whole ceiling because the damage originated from our toilet overflowing. Which it has 3 times, but only briefly (never left in an uncontrolled long flow.) We also know the ceiling was damaged when we moved in (from our visits to the original tenant) and that there is no ventilation in there. I'm certainly not going to pay to repair anything in his unit when he owes me money. His email also contained a forward from the tenant which said I "ignored him". Last night the new tenants approached us about planting some sunflowers. I tried to be encouraging but we live in a very woody site and there is no area that gets 6-8 hours of sun. I told them this and suggested other flowers I have had success with. In case the written word would be clearer I left them a note restating that info and pointing out where I would prepare a section for them to try the sunflowers. They have left the note in their mailbox, which is weird because my kid exchanges notes with their kid pretty regularly. I feel like every interaction with them is a potential problem. Lastly, this weekend Mr. L's daughter and a male unknown to us entered the property and trespassed onto our portion of the basement. We assumed she was there on a tenant related issue but it turns out she was there to measure the basement for installing a 3rd unit in the basement with two bedrooms, a bath and kitchenette. That is an obviously absurd plan as we are zoned as a duplex. TLDR Question: How do we go forward without us having to pay a lawyer and sue? I'd like to be financial reimbursed for all the maintenance and improvements Mr. L shorted us on, get the HOA account functioning and established a maintenance plan, and have the tenants abide by the condo agreements. I am on edge day-to-day because of the unresolved issues with his tenants and am tense whenever I go out in my yard.

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"The theme of our ILA 2019 Conference—Creating a Culture of Literacy—focused largely on how to infuse literacy throughout every aspect of the school day and students' lives. When literacy is embedded in every aspect of education, it creates the environment students need to reach their full potential in the classroom and throughout their lives. These ILA 2019 featured sessions demonstrate the importance of working collaboratively to build and sustain a culture that extends beyond the school setting." The International Literacy Association is offering a free online replay of six sessions from last year's conference, available until April 30, 2020. Sessions: 1) Creating a Culture of Literacy; 2) What Research Really Says About Teaching Reading—and Why That Still Matters; 3) We Need More Than Diverse Books; 4) Teaching Vulnerable Youth How to Read and Write: Lessons About Life, Literacy, and the Pursuit of Meaning; 5) Choice, Access, Empowerment: Changing the Game for Young Readers; 6) Motivating Readers From the Inside Out: The Five Key Beliefs That Matter Most for Student Literacy Registration is required, but it is free. Speakers: 1) Renée Watson and Pedro Noguera 2) P. David Pearson, Sonia Cabell, Gwendolyn McMillon, and Nell K. Duke 3) Tricia Ebarvia 4) David Kirkland 5) Donalyn Miller 6) Dave Stuart Jr.

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Tony Lewis, half of the famous Duckworth-Lewis duo, who created their namesake method for calculating the required score for rain-interrupted limited overs cricket matches, passed away this week at the age of 78. But what is the Duckworth-Lewis Method? (nowadays actually the Duckworth-Lewis-Stern method) Well surely nothing could be simpler than quickly calculating Z(u, w) = Z0(w)(1- e-b(w)u) in your head as you walk in the rain back to the sheds, but seeing as you asked... If limited-overs cricket matches (e.g one-day games) are rain-affected, the Duckworth-Lewis method is used to reset targets to attempt to gain a result. The system is based on the percentage of resources (overs and wickets) a team have left. For example, with 50 overs and 10 wickets remaining, a team have 100 per cent of their resources left. But it gets just a little more complicated than that, as described by the authors themselves to the Royal Statistical Society. Suffice to say whenever a mathematical formula is used to adjust an otherwise evenly contested sports match, there will be...ummm...issues. In the 2007 World Cup Cricket Final, confusion over the method and rules resulted in the teams continuing to play in almost unplayable conditions even though Australia had already won. And South Africa always seemed to be on the wrong end of it at the worst possible times. Suffice to say fans ever love or hate the method (depending on which side they are on), and it has become an integral part of modern cricket. There is also the Duckworth-Lewis Method band with their albums "Sticky Wickets" and the self-titled "The Duckworth Lewis Method" (both available on ITunes), if you fidn yourslef in need of some cricket-themed music currently.

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Looking for lighthearted entertainment (books, tv shows, movies) where 2 characters start out as BFFs & then later get into a romantic relationship.Examples, hopefully these are all old enough that they don't count as spoilers! Jim & Pam from The Office Rob & Hermione from Harry Potter Booth and Brennan from Bones Unrequited yearning /UST is okay as long as the tone is light/uplifting, not bleak.

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My currant bushes are mostly old branches. Do I prune them out just the same, leaving very little or no new growth?I have nine very productive black, red and white currant bushes that I planted many years ago. I have never pruned them. Most of the branches are old wood (some with peeling bark), and many are nearly horizontal and close to the ground, although some are nearly upright. However, all of these old branches are loaded with buds. It's my understanding that one should eliminate old branches, but if I did that, there would be nothing left or almost nothing left. What do I do?

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" Only a third of NYFW shows were in person. People weren't flying from Europe unless their companies could pay for carbon offset. An acquaintance who split car fare with me at the Paris shows WhatsApped me to say I should eat a plate of gnocchi marinara for her at the red sauce joint that used to be popular with our crowd. I didn't have the heart to tell her that it was still boarded up." Nostalgia Is A Permanent Condition, a near future short story at Indoor Voices, a group blog for quarantined writers.

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I'm extremely frustrated not finding a solution to my outlook issue. I have tried all kinds of things. I have removed tons of emails (naturally, I can't remove them in my outlook but I can do it in my gmail account). I have allowed archiving. I have previously managed to get out of this using these tricks but not this time. I have some info that I really need in my contacts folder....I'm scared about tinkering in regedit. However, the 4 register entries are (and I think they spell trouble): (Default), Reg_SZ, (value not set) EnableMarch2018BestBodyFix, REG_DWORD (0x00000000 (0) EnableNewCorruptionUx, REG_DWORD (0x00000000 (1) LastCorruptStore, REG_SZ (C:\Users etc How would I proceed safely and preferable not losing what I have in my contact.

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Need reassurance about sudden lump under chin...YANMD disclaimer and all that....but I just wanted to get some reassurance from the hivemind-- Yesterday night I was in bed when I rested my chin on my hand and felt a jab of pain. I felt around and realized there was a hard lump right under my chin, in between the jawbone, slightly to my right side. It's painful to the touch, though definitely not a zit (I get enough chin zits to know what they feel like). I figured it was probably a swollen node, and after googling, probably a submental lymph node? It sprang up really suddenly though, maybe in the matter of an hour or two, because I rest my head on my hands a lot and I would have noticed the pain earlier. The only reason why it gave me extra anxiety is because 1) during these times it's easy just to get worked about anything unusual, health-wise and 2) This is a pretty rare occurrence for me, I haven't had a swollen node in like...years. In trying to google possible causes and even looking at old askme's, I figured that the cause might be some deep zits/blemishes on chin that I've been fighting/irritating the past few days (I know, I know)...maybe I aggravated it to the point of minor infection? But I've never had this reaction from that before. Healthwise I'm otherwise feeling fine, no fever or anything. So again, YANMD but this is probably nothing to worry about, right? I know in normal circumstances I could just seek out/call a health professional, but in these times I really loathe to add to their load for something that's probably nothing.

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I started working in January as a substitute teacher in NYC, through a temp agency. After ~2 months of work, the schools closed. Are there any state or federal unemployment or other benefits that I can apply for?The state unemployment website says "You must have worked and been paid wages for work in at least two calendar quarters in your base period", which doesn't apply to me. I don't have any source of income, and I don't have any savings. Is there any kind of assistance available for someone in my situation?

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Looking for best practices on structuring language self-study programs for an intermediate learner. Not looking for specific language learning resources so much as resources on how to study. (Spanish, specifically)I'm an intermediate Spanish learner, probably b1ish level. I want to start spending a little more time each day studying, and I'm looking for resources on how to best use my time, particularly at an intermediate level. I'm hoping to find some resources about how to structure self study. Some of the kinds of questions I'm thinking about-- how much time should I spend on listening vs reading vs speaking vs grammar study? Is it better to consume simplified materials or should I be trying to jump into media aimed at native speakers if I can understand some of it? Is slowing down audio a great learning tool or a crutch? Is there a "sweet spot" in terms of hours spent per day studying a language? If I'm not practicing speaking too much is that a big problem? Etc. Anyone know of any blogs or anything that help address this type of question? Probably not looking for super academic texts so much as more practical how-tos. Right now, I do a lot of: -watching Netflix in spanish with spanish subtitles (I'd estimate I understand around 70% of words via the audio or the subtitles and can generally follow the storylines pretty well) -using HelloTalk to text chat with spanish speakers -using the Lupa app to listen to Spanish radio at .7x speed. (While this isn't the focus of the question, I'm not against general study resources either if you have something you think would be a good fit! Focusing on Latin American accents/grammar vs Spain accents/grammar.)

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I had a trip planned to Chicago and Milwaukee, and now that's been obviously postponed, I am reconfiguring it to also include DC and Philadelphia. Chicago/DC are pretty well served by popular culture - are there any books, films, documentaries or series about Philadelphia and Milwaukee that I can get into whilst proper planning is on hold?I have already done: - It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia - most of Jennifer Weiner's novels - Happy Days (well, as a kid) I will be: - checking out Atlas Obscura, especially as I like weird spots and abandoned/old buildings - watching more ER, which we are doing from the start at the moment - well, they mention Milwaukee? I do not have: - any tourist guides for either city, as they don't seem to be a thing for the UK market I especially like 70s/80s stuff - I've really enjoyed reading the archive copies of New York Magazine that are on Google Books - if there is something similar out there for any of these cities then I'd love to see them, as I find this kind of thing gives me a feel for cities that Lonely Planet guides don't provide.

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I'm located in a state with a high prevalence of COVID-19. I am aware of a hair salon that is still doing brisk business, despite a mandatory order for all non-essential businesses to close. Should I report them?I am the part owner of a small retail business. We voluntarily closed back in mid-March, several days before we were required to do so. We don't own the building. The neighboring business is a hair salon. We have the same landlord, and in fact we share some common space – specifically, the bathrooms. The owner of the salon has covered-up her windows with paper, but I know she's still operating. I can hear voices through the walls, and my security cameras have captured images of her and her customers walking through the lobby to use the bathrooms. She also seems to have a single staff member who is still working. I texted the owner and told her firmly (but politely) that I think she should close, and that she's endangering herself, her customers, and her staff. I also expressed concern that she's still using the common bathrooms. She responded that she is only servicing a few close friends (this seems unlikely). This exchange occurred about a week ago, and she has since stopped using the bathrooms – but her business is still going strong, as far as I can tell. I've thought about telling the landlord, but he's unlikely to care. He's a notorious scam artist who cheats on his taxes, files fraudulent insurance claims, etc. And he's also friendly with the owner of the salon. I'm also a bit afraid of the owner of the hair salon, as she has some unsavory friends, and she is also known to have a hot temper. If she gets in trouble, my business partner and I would certainly be at the top of her list of suspects. In one sense, I feel obligated to try to stop her, because she's a menace to society. In another sense, I worry that doing so has a good chance of causing me grief down the road. My business partner feels similarly conflicted. We're uncertain about what to do.

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I just received a weird string of insults via text. The sender used specifics that make me think they know (or knew) me personally. (Damn, dude. This is a first.) I looked up the number on Whitepages, Spokeo, and Intelius. Not much info, except the carrier is listed as Onvoy. It looks like (?) that's a service that lets you text over the Internet. Is there anything I can do to find out who sent these messages? I didn't respond because Gift of Fear, but I'm reluctant to block in case they escalate. Thanks for any ideas or expertise you have to share!

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In "Immersion" (S5E8) of "The Americans", the FBI agents meet with a Soviet source in a museum. Where was this scene shot? (Description of the scene inside.)The museum appears to be in an older building, with wooden floors and white walls. At one point we see a staircase in the background leading to an upper level. In the scene, the actors walk down the length of a long rectangular gallery with display cases & paintings on the walls. In the middle of the gallery are some display cases containing models of ships. At least a couple of these display cases have a distinctive shape: their glass panes are bowed outwards in the center (i.e., the display case is narrow at the bottom and the top than it is halfway up.) The show is set in DC, but I believe most of the American filming was done in & around New York. Any thoughts?

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Is there a way to create preview icons in the Finder for video files on a Mac with Catalina installed? In the latest version of Mac OS the icons for video files in formats like .wmv and .avi have become just general icons rather than being a visual preview. I don't think that this is currently supported by Apple itself, but is there any third-party software that can accomplish this?

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I'm slowly regaining mobility after a severe break in my left arm and wrist. I had just bought a Switch Lite before the injury, and I am new to video games (besides super mario bros c. 1988). I can press buttons and sorta move the joystick around, but not smoothly or dexterously. Is there anything that might work? Or a truly enticing game that will help me push forward despite some frustration?My thumb is the big problem. I can somewhat compensate with other fingers on the joystick thing, but my other fingers are also just beginning to get back in the swing of things, so it just cant rely on fast slick left-handed maneuvering. Also, I tried Animal Crossing and it is not my cup of tea. Otherwise I'm open to any suggestions, even if its something that's great and will be hard for me, but which I can strive for as I get better. I really want to give video games a fair shake, and this seems like a good time to try (if I can work around this injury.) I suspect I'd like weird aesthetically-darker games, whatever that means, but open to literally anything. Bonus: is there a sci-fi-ish game that could work? I know this might be a shot in the dark, but let's see. \\\Thanks///

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"Coffee Collects and settles the Spirits, makes the erection more Vigorous, the Ejaculation more full, adds a spiritualescency to the Sperme, and renders it more firm and suitable to the Gusto of the womb, and proportionate to the ardours and expectations too, of the female Paramour." An in-depth exploration of coffee as a weapon of capitalism and colonialism.

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My 6 year old boy wants to grow his hair long ("just like mama"). He is currently at that awkward stage where it is starting to be long enough to get in his eyes and over his ears but too short to pull back in any way. Can you help us with some ideas about how to keep it under control while he plays?I know the usual answer would be barrettes and headbands, but as he pointed out "boys don't usually wear barrettes." I think he would be OK with it as a solution if we don't find anything else, but I thought I would see if you guys could come up with some more original ideas? I tried to google images of boys with long hair, but for some reason it was much harder to find images of the awkward grow-out stage. Help with google terms so we can find photos would also be much appreciated! In case it matters for the responses, we don't have any indication that this is other than an aesthetic preference. He doesn't seem to be looking to be a girl, or to experiment with gender roles. I've asked, and he just says he think long hair looks better. Thanks!

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Welcome to Lesbianville, U.S.A.: a breathless 1992 report from Northampton, Mass., the Gen X Sapphic paradise that "10,000 cuddling, kissing lesbians call home sweet home" where "one bookshop sells 'Just Say No To Men' buttons" and "even the graffiti is gay." (From the archives of a highly regarded publication called The National Enquirer) Twitter replies include a followup on the couple pictured. They're still together!

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My 88 year old mother lives in an assisted living home. The residents have been well taken care of during the covid pandemic They receive meals in their private rooms, group activities have been stopped, no visitors are allowed...We get email updates every two days with protocol and safety updates. This residence is smaller, 35 people, but part of a large group of senior living. We have just received a message from another resident's daughter, that two new residents are moving in this week. They are from the NY area, movers will be in and out of the building... What should I write that will be constructive and persuasive, rather than angry and emotional? Thank you

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I'm 31 and was recently dumped out of the blue by my first girlfriend of ~3 years. I'm looking for a series of podcasts or books I can listen to while walking or going through an emotional crying spell that are for men. Reason for the distinction is that a lot of what I've found is for women. I'm not looking for a Pickup Hot Babez type of thing. I'm looking for help grieving, self love/care and getting back out there to find my future wife.Oh, I'm also looking for any websites, Reddits, forums, (and especially) YouTube channels. Also, keep in mind that, just because I'm asking for men, I'm not exactly looking for a drill sergeant yelling at me to suck it up and stop being a pansy. Back in the day I would go to enotalone, but now when I look at it, the forum topics make me depressed because everything sounds so bleak. I mean, I imagine that's to be expected. Also, I don't want to go down any weird rabbit holes that lead to incel crap or the toxic Pick Up Community. I've watched a video saying that men never get over breakups. That scares the hell outta me. I have my guesses, but why do you think that there is so little emotional/spiritual heartbreak resources for guys. It's not that it has to be written or spoke by a guy. I was listening to a podcast about getting back out in the dating game after a breakup, and the lady was just strait up that she doesn't help men. Another podcast was about learning to love yourself and, again, the lady was honest that she works exclusively with women. Meanwhile, for men, it's mostly about how to get laid.

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